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I’m Devlyn Bohman – a Board Certified Chaplain, an Interfaith Minister and lifelong ritualist devoted to helping people mark the sacred thresholds of their lives with care, intention, and meaning.

For over three decades now, I’ve been studying and working within the world’s spiritual, religious, and earth-honoring traditions — accompanying people through grief, healing, transformation, and celebration. Wedding ceremonies are one of the places where all of that experience comes together in a particularly joyful and powerful way.

For more than 15 years, I’ve had the honor of officiating weddings for couples from many different faith backgrounds — and for those who don’t identify with any faith tradition at all. I work with interfaith couples, intercultural families, LGBTQ+ partners, secular and spiritual pairs, blended families and relationships that don’t always fit “conventional molds”.

I also support couples and partners across a wide spectrum of relationship structures — including those in polyamorous or non-hierarchical relationships — creating ceremonies that honor the commitments, values, and care at the heart of each bond.

By day, I serve as a healthcare chaplain, accompanying patients, families, and medical staff through some of life’s most vulnerable and tender moments. That work has shaped me deeply. It’s taught me how to listen beneath the surface, how to hold complexity with steadiness, and how to navigate tender – and sometimes complicated – family dynamics with compassion, skill, and respect for everyone involved.

I’m also the founder of the Trans Spiritual Care Initiative, where I train chaplains and clergy to provide gender-affirming spiritual care and advocate for and with gender diverse people. That work continues to inform how I show up in wedding spaces — especially when couples are holding layered identities, histories, or family relationships that require extra care and understanding.

My theological training includes a Master of Divinity degree from Pacific School of Religion, Interfaith Ministry Training with the New Seminary and I’m a legally ordained interfaith minister. Alongside my formal training, I’ve spent decades leading earth-based ceremonies and ancestral practices, which deeply inform my approach to sacred gatherings of all kinds.

When we work together, my role isn’t just to perform your ceremony.

It’s to walk with you through the meaning-making process — to create something that feels grounded, spacious, and unmistakably yours.

My Approach to Ceremony

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People find meaning in many different ways.

For some, that meaning is rooted in religious tradition — scripture, prayer, or inherited ritual. For others, it lives in cultural customs, ancestral practices, or earth-honoring spirituality. And for many, it may be shaped by personal values, secular commitments, or a sense of the sacred that exists outside formal religion altogether.

Wherever you fall on this spectrum, your ceremony can hold it.

I work with couples and partners across faith traditions, spiritual paths, cultural lineages, and belief systems – including those who identify as spiritual but not religious, interfaith, multi-faith, or non-religious. Together, we create ceremonies that feel authentic to who you are, rather than confined to a template that doesn’t fit.

That same spirit of inclusion extends to relationship structure.

I work with couples and partners in monogamous, polyamorous, and non-hierarchical relationships. We work together to craft ceremonies that honor the commitments, values, and agreements at the heart of each bond. Whether a ceremony centers two people or more than two, the intention remains the same: to create something grounded, meaningful, and respectful for everyone present, including the wider circle of family and community.

I believe the role of a ceremonial leader is to hold the center of the ritual and guide the structure. I bring my values as a chaplain to this work and support you in drawing out the values and beliefs that shape and ground your love and never impose my own.

At its core, my role is not to impose a framework, but to help you shape one.

Together, we listen for what holds meaning – the rituals, readings, symbols, or gestures that reflect your story. We weave together elements that feel cohesive and sincere, whether drawn from religious tradition, cultural heritage, shared values, or entirely new creations.

All love deserves dignity. All ceremonies deserve care.

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